its kinda weird! just a couple of days back its the same you, the same place,
same situations and the same world around you. but there you are so lost, isolated and disappointed with love.. then suddenly one fine holiday, chilling at home and when you are least expecting you come across something so true so right that it completely bowls you over and makes you think again with a different perspective altogether.
a simple movie thats not even a blockbuster leaves you wondering on a small fact.... a fact that you had always known but never realized. so back to love we are and this time we are here to think again "was it love at all???"
throughout our lives we come across many people who we meet in our day to day life, some of them leave behind footprints in your heart. (sorry if it sounds too cliched) there have been instances in everyone's life when you meet someone whom you have known for long. or sometimes even strangers who seem to you friendlier than even your closest friend. but as you spend more time with them you start developing an attachment with them and start relating to them. over the days this feeling grows so strong that it starts reflecting in your behavior and your life.
so how do you differentiate it from love? how do you know its love or just an attraction towards the person. for some people (like me) its pretty much hard to differentiate between love and attraction. all your life you wait for the perfect guy/gal only to find that you are the only one thinking so?
this reminds me of a nice little dialog from that movie.. "its not where you spend your time with that matters, its with whom you spend it" such a lovely thought woven so well into these simple words.
i have been pondering on this subject and came to a simple conclusion...
let your heart decide...
you know the best decisions ever taken are always by heart,
all this happens even without you knowing that you have actually made the decision... you know when you feel its love just let it go... forget completely about it and you will see that whatever decisions you are taking leads you to your answer...
when you are in love you will never think twice before making decisions. actually when you are in love you are continuously thinking of that special person that you cant actually think anything else.. thats what i found out and now i have the answer to a long awaited question of mine.
and being a person who doest give up that easily, here i am packing up my backpack and getting ready for the new adventure that i am seeking out.... in search of love.
